Pray First

Nehemiah 2:8, 12, 18

In the month of Nisan, in the twentieth year of King Artaxerxes, when wine was before him, I took up the wine and gave it to the King. Now I had not been sad in his presence. And the King said to me, “Why is your face sad, seeing you are not sick? This is nothing but sadness of the heart.” Then I was very much afraid. I said to the King, “Let the King live forever! Why should not my face be sad, when the city, the place of my fathers’ graves, lies in ruins, and its gates have been destroyed by fire?” Then the King said to me, “What are you requesting?” So I prayed to the God of heaven. And I said to the King, “If it pleases the King, and if your servant has found favor in your sight, that you send me to Judah, to the city of my fathers’ graves, that I may rebuild it.” And the King said to me (the queen sitting beside him), “How long will you be gone, and when will you return?” So it pleased the King to send me when I had given him a time. And I said to the King, “If it pleases the King, let letters be given me to the governors of the province Beyond the River, that they may let me pass through until I come to Judah, and a letter to Asaph, the keeper of the King’s forest, that he may give me timber to make beams for the gates of the fortress of the temple, and for the wall of the city, and for the house that I shall occupy.” And the King granted me what I asked, for the good hand of my God was upon me.

Nehemiah was among the exiles of Judah, born in Babylon, serving in the royal court of Artaxerxes as the King’s cupbearer. The cupbearer sampled everything served to the King ensuring the King wasn’t being poisoned and as such was vital to the welfare of the King and was with the King frequently. A note about royal protocol is that no one is allowed to be depressed in the presence of the King—everyone was to be upbeat.

Nehemiah had not been part of the first two returns to Jerusalem but would have known of the Temple’s rebuilding completed 70 years earlier. Esther has lived and reigned and a dozen years ago, Ezra had returned to Jerusalem. Now, twenty years into the reign of Artaxerxes, one of Nehemiah’s relatives arrives and to Nehemiah’s dismay informs him that only so much has been done; yes, the altar is used, the Temple is rebuilt but the walls of the city are still in disarray just as they were left by Nebuchadnezzar more than 140 years ago. This reminder has a profound impact upon Nehemiah.

As soon as I heard these words I sat down and wept and mourned for days, and I continued fasting and praying before the God of heaven. And I said, “O LORD God of heaven, the great and awesome God who keeps covenant and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his commandments, let your ear be attentive and your eyes open, to hear the prayer of your servant that I now pray before you day and night for the people of Israel your servants, confessing the sins of the people of Israel, which we have sinned against you. Even I and my father’s house have sinned. 1  

Is our first response to disturbing news to go to God in prayer, to identify with the situation in a meaningful way, to take responsibility for our lack of concern until now? Nehemiah ‘owns’ the condition of Jerusalem—the vulnerability that openness creates—as his responsibility. Looking all the way back to what God expressed to the Israelites under Moses a thousand years before, he takes responsibility for his lax attitude in faithfulness to the Lᴏʀᴅ for all God has revealed. For days he ‘wept and mourned… fasted and prayed’ pouring out his heart to God. Before he did anything else.

When the King recognizes Nehemiah’s sadness and inquires about it, Nehemiah is direct in answering the King. Succinct, direct, pointed, courteous, entrusted by the Lᴏʀᴅ. Focusing has prepared the response he gives the King who immediately grants permission for Nehemiah to go to Jerusalem and resolve the deficiency and with all expenses voluntarily paid by the King.

And the King granted me what I asked, for the good hand of my God was upon me.” 2

Was it Nehemiah’s charisma or court status that won favor? Unlikely but rather that God had prepared the way, removing obstacles, turning the heart of the King to grant the enabling. How often in our lives do we react to obstacles first in our own abilities and eventually remember to include God almost as a courtesy or an afterthought? Nehemiah is an example of first things first and God is First.

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